Emotional Detox – Everyone needs it

By Sue Siebens

Most of us don’t openly talk about our emotions. and if we do, it’s only the big stuff and it’s only if it’s causing disruption in our life.

But what if we could acknowledge that the daily disruptions and discomforts that are expressed as emotions are just as important as any body pain we sense? What if self-care, like brushing our teeth or exercising our bodies included taking care of our emotions?

Researchers find, over and over again, that chronic and acute stresses in our lives contribute to greater incidences of depression, anxiety, irritability, sadness, regret, chronic dissatisfaction, anger, envy, fear, shame, frustration, and compulsive behaviors and addictions. Our stressors trigger emotions, large and small, to erupt in our lives.

Imagine for a moment all the time and energy we spend feeling, coping, trying to process and controlling our emotions. It literally robs us of hours and hours…that we will never get back. They also distract us from the many other behavioral choices available to us and come back when triggered again.

ENOUGH! There is a better way to go.

Recently a person shared that as the result of reading a CaringBridge journal, recounting a succession of health crises, surgeries and amputations, she was so sad for the person that she wept for over an hour. She was moved by the person’s struggles. And rightly so! But what actual good did the hour of crying do? Future reading of that continuing story will likely cause more tears.

If she would resolve the emotion that is causing her sorrow, she could use her empathetic reaction in a number of beneficial ways. She could relieve their isolation by a visit with them in-person or by phone. If they are still in the hospital, bring them an “outside” snack or treat that fits in their meal regimen. If they are home, bring them a home cooked meal or their favorite take-out. Drive them to appointments, shopping, or accompany them to a movie when they are able. There a ton of options to choose from when emotions are not in your way.

If you name an adverse emotional response, I bet I could come up with 3-5 gentle and beneficial responses that are more soul satisfying.

Now think about waking up in the morning… how many small emotions do we navigate as we turn off the alarm and roll out of bed. So many little blips, sometimes too small to label. “Ugh – is that alarm really going off already – I could really use just a couple more minutes [disappointment], I better get up and get my exercise/meditation done [control/fear of consequences], OMG – I need to dress for a big meeting today with a new client [anxiety], Did my kid get their homework/project done? I may need to help them pull things together [frustrated overload], crap I forgot to get cereal–ok smoothies for breakfast [dismay], etc” and your feet haven’t even hit the ground yet!


Emotional Detox

We need to release the toxic emotions that keep us bound up in order to get to the gentle and beneficial actions and behaviors that enrich our life.

First we need to accept that working with emotions is a normal and necessary thing to do. We are HUMAN. We have emotions. It comes with the territory.

As humans, our bodies have a natural and innate ability to resolve emotions. When we have an unpleasant emotion, it just means that at some point in our life, we had a high stress event that overcame the body’s ability and the emotion was embedded in the body.

Emotional Resolution, EmRes, uses active awareness to engage the body’s innate ability to permanently resolve the uncomfortable emotion. We don’t have to understand the origin of the pain or learn coping skills to control or avoid the triggers. We just become aware of the physical sensations of our emotional pain and our body does the rest.

During EmRes sessions, the client is fully conscious, lucid and in control of themselves. A real emotional event is recalled, but not triggered. Personal details need not be shared. It is a quiet, gentle and permanent release of the emotion related to a natural situation.

After the brain and body has reintegrated the embedded emotion, the same trigger will have no “charge”. The trigger will not produce the emotion.

We are naturally wired to do this work.

Are you ready to be rid of your toxic emotions?

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About Sue
Sue Siebens is an intuitive holistic healer based in Dallas, Texas. In her practice, she uses techniques that work at a fundamental level, where the roots of the illness, fear and pain can be accessed and resolved.  Sue teaches and blogs to broadcast and raise awareness about these new technologies, so that as many people as possible can find relief and peace in their life.

EmRes-Self – Detox and Balance Your Stressful Emotions

EmRes-Self – Detox and Balance Your Stressful Emotions

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Learn to Resolve Your Unwanted Emotions class
A 1.5 hour class

Emotional Resolution for Yourself, by Yourself – Self-EmRes

The Emotional Resolution, EmRes, process for individual work is NOT just another coping mechanism like breathing or imagining. It works with the emotion that is present in you now, connects you to the imprinted emotion stored in the body and removes the triggering origin from the subconscious. The EmRes-Self way accurately accesses sensory memories activated in you in the moment and release the stressful reaction and integrates emotional response permanently.

EmRes-Self is immediately usable to all individuals that attend this short and easy training.

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Learn to Resolve Your Unwanted Emotions

Emotional Resolution for yourself, by yourself (EmRes-Self)

RSVP Required at Prana Haven, 972-310-3480

Part 1 of a Two-part Class
(2 x 1 hour, a few weeks apart)

Don’t just learn how to deal with your emotions. Learn how to resolve them so that you can live free and empowered.

This training will allow you to resolve your emotional patterns at anytime on your own. You will learn how to resolve your reactions any time, any place. It will free you from restricting emotional patterns and you will gain full authority of your emotional life.

The class will focus on the Emotional Resolution protocol itself, with examples and explanations. Upon completion, participants will be able to self-resolve their own emotional difficulties in the moment and as they arise in their life.

No previous experience or knowledge is required. No personal information or stories need be shared in this public meeting. It is a safe space to come learn and take away skills to practice on your own.

A two-week break before Part 2 class allows students to practice, practice, practice. Experience will help them discover what they missed in first training and where they need refinement.

RSVP Required at Prana Haven, 972-310-3480

The Path to Happiness and Contentment

By Sue Siebens

I’m a guest blogger on the Emotional Health Institute website 🙂 and this blog is one I posted there.


The Hygiene of Life: Our Pathway to Happiness

To live a balanced life…that is a life of health, success, and happiness, we must think in terms of the full integration of the 6 dimensions of our personal life: our physical, social, emotional, intellectual/mental, occupational/financial and spiritual.

For the most part, we understand what it means to take care of ourselves in each area (Read More)

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About Sue
Sue Siebens is an intuitive holistic healer based in Dallas, Texas. In her practice, she uses techniques that work at a fundamental level, where the roots of the illness, fear and pain can be accessed and resolved.  Sue teaches and blogs to broadcast and raise awareness about these new technologies, so that as many people as possible can find relief and peace in their life.

Letting Go of Chronic Pain

By Sue Siebens

Many people endure years of pain. Chronic pain is described as persistent pain that lasts longer than 6 months. It can be the “unhealed” result of accidental injury or surgical interventions and come on slowly as aches and fatigue. Eventually long standing pain can affect people mentally with lower frustration and anger flash points and activate/reactivate anxieties and depression. Often chronic pain will affect family and friend relationships and job performance and life satisfaction.

The CDC estimates that 50 million Americans, just over 20% of the adult population, has chronic pain. 20 million of them have pain that is severe enough that it limits work or life activities.[2]

A recent-ish study (2016) at King’s College London[1] has shown that even small benign neuron injuries leave a cellular “footprint”. These footprints or markers carry the memory of the initial injury by affecting the local gene expression of neurons and immune system responses via microglia changes.

Why is this interesting? It leads to an understanding of how and why locally overly sensitive nervous system are formed. If we understand what is happening there, we can make a strategy to change it.

How do we correct the markers and reset the memory of the initial injury so that the local area returns to a “normal’, healthy response….pain-free and functioning properly?

Chronic pain is a complex of different systems working together to produce an undesired result or pain. The stressed-out overworked mind, the strained hypersensitive body, and the frazzled unfocused spirit all need to be addressed, calmed and reset., The trick is to Combining

Whether your chronic pain is localized from a break or a cut, multi-point like arthritis or more generalized like Fibromyalgia, its relief and resolution will probably be multi-faceted.

An invaluable addition to your chronic pain therapeutic regimen is Bowen Therapy

All tissue injuries, even the small benign ones in the study, affect the local fascia. and what is the master of fascia healing? Bowen Therapy!

It’s impossible for injury not to affect fascia, since it covers every square centimeter of our insides. The collagen proteins of fascia are the strings of connective tissue that support and link literally everything. And it feeds all other tissues in our body.

Fascia is the inter-cellular super-highway of fluid, delivering nutrients and oxygen from arteries to our cells and removing debris and carbon dioxide from cells back to veins. When tissue is damaged, the repairing/healing scar tissue can act as dams in the flow, cutting off the road to necessary repair ingredients and trapping waste.

Bowen Therapy is excellent in realigning tissue, releasing adhesion and restoring flow to the fluid highways. Now the repair systems can do it’s job.

Local pain memories need the full support of the immune and repair systems in order to reset.

You can let go of chronic pain, daily struggles and often mute suffering.

Give Bowen therapy a try and find a difference in you life.

Book a Session today


About Sue
Sue Siebens is an intuitive holistic healer based in Dallas, Texas. In her practice, she uses techniques that work at a fundamental level, where the roots of the illness, fear and pain can be accessed and resolved.  Sue teaches and blogs to broadcast and raise awareness about these new technologies, so that as many people as possible can find relief and peace in their life.

References
1. Cells carry ‘memory’ of injury, which could reveal why chronic pain persists, https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2016/05/160512124930.htm
2. CDC: 50 Million Americans Have Chronic Pain, https://www.painnewsnetwork.org/stories/2018/9/13/cdc-50-million-americans-have-chronic-pain

Awakening Human Potential

By Sue Siebens

When I started learning and working with Emotional Resolution (EmRes), I thought: “Hey, EmRes is great stuff. There are lots of people with over-the-top emotions, trapped in their behaviors and locked into patterns that seem unbreakable.”  And EmRes can certainly tackle those myriad of “large” emotions, that swamp people’s lives and keep them imprisoned in cycles of fear, rage and abuse, to themselves and others. 

We have the Potential to be Super-Great

Now that I’ve worked with EmRes for a while, with clients, friends, fellow practitioners and myself, I’ve come to realize that, Yes, it works great for people with “big” emotional issues. But we all have tensions inside of us. They range from irritable, snappy, or loudly expressed to bitter, callous, quiet eye-rolling or coldly indifferent.

When I was working in IT, I was frequently under high levels of stress for long periods of time. It’s kind of the nature of the beast in IT. And occasionally, I’d blow up, directly my anxiety outward. Subconsciously, it was my way to scare people away so that they would leave me alone and my sensations would go away. The physical sensation that my brain used to tell me that something was wrong. (but I didn’t know it at the time.)

In our schools, there are 6 year old kids that are throwing tables across the room. Why? Because they are afraid. They have so much tension inside and by throwing the table, they are trying to release it .  They are trying to control it the uncomfortable sensations–shut it down.

As a parent, how many times have we yelled at our kids, then regret it and maybe apologize later–“I’m sorry, I love you”? But then sometime later the child will do it again, or something similar, as they do, and we react again, apologize again? What sensations are we trying extinguish?

As a care-giver to someone that used to be sharp as a tack, but now has trouble finding their shoes, we can be impatient and snappish. Why is the emotion surging, over what is now a matter of fact in Mom’s life?

The subtle physical sensations that represent our emotions, are put there by our brain to alert us to a perceived situation that is similar, sometimes vaguely so, to some past event that was extremely upsetting to us. We employed the now invoked emotion to “survive” that episode. The unconscious mind remembers all these events in our lives. It is trying to prepare us for a new such event by invoking the emotion, much like blood-pressure goes up in preparation for a physical activity.

So when you react at someone, recognize the cycle of

  • The incident — usually something done around you e.i., Mom does something irritating
  • The tension – your subconscious reacts and creates physical sensations, a new tension in the body
  • The snappish comment, raised voice, heavy sigh, take a breath (or two), etc – attempt to release or control the sensations
  • The contrition – if the release extended outward to affect another
  • The calm – AHHH, relief! the sensation is gone.

Slamming doors and rolling eyes, shows that we still have something to work on. Your reactions and behaviors are the telltales of what is lying under the surface. The reacts don’t resolve the emotions, they just temporarily relieve the tension.


EmRes does resolve the emotion of the situation. It resets the subconscious mind’s connect between the situation and the emotion — there is no danger here, you don’t need to provoke that emotion any more. It’s done, that emotional situation is gone…forever.

On one level, EmRes is for people with major trauma, that need major shifts.  But on another level, it is really about resolving the simple interactions that are not “above the line”. 

Our work on ourselves is very important. ANYTHING that brings on a physical sensation is “actionable”.

EmRes is a tool for accelerating our Human Growth Potential. 

The more content we are, the better we are for those around us. If we are not content, we can’t fake it and be present for others.  And every time you do an eye-roll, you are not content.

We can grow and evolve into more decent, wonderful, better human beings that we were yesterday. We have the potential to be Super-Great.

Are you read to shed your unwanted reactions and be Super?

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About Sue
Sue Siebens is an intuitive holistic healer based in Dallas, Texas. In her practice, she uses techniques that work at a fundamental level, where the roots of the illness, fear and pain can be accessed and resolved.  Sue teaches and blogs to broadcast and raise awareness about these new technologies, so that as many people as possible can find relief and peace in their life.

Overcoming Anger with Emotional Resolution

By Sue Siebens

Anger! that flash of that grips the chest and gut!  It focuses our attention to the source of our indignation and calls for immediate action in our defense, correcting someone else’s behavior.

It can be overwhelming and what seems reasonable and honest to us, inside our brain, can be an exaggerated tirade by an observer, even if the rant is not directed towards them?

Why do we react in such a big way? Why do we react at all, especially when our personal safety and well-being is not at risk,… especially when it’s directed toward someone we love and care deeply for?

Past emotions that are unresolved still exist in our bodies.  For some reason, the natural process of regulating the emotion when it first happened was interrupted and it didn’t dissipate. In the future, when a situation triggers that emotion, not only do we react to the circumstances of the current situation, but the stored emotion is added to the mix. The mind then faces a heightened narrative to which it feels compelled to respond.

We want to be in the present moment.  Life would be so much simpler if we only had to deal with what is happening now.

How do we get rid of those stored emotions?

It turns out that by paying attention, in a very precise way, to the physical sensations that represent an emotion, it will dissipate and be removed permanently.

Emotional Resolution, EmRes, protocols have amazing effects.  In a short 30 minute or less session, a single emotion can be addressed and resolved.  It doesn’t matter what the emotion is.  The origin and story about how the emotion got locked in the body is not important to this process. We only deal with a current-ish situation that has triggered the emotion.

It sounds too simple to be true, but I have many clients who can attest to the remarkable results they have experienced.

check out this article: JESSICA’S STORY OF OVERCOMING ANGER

If you have emotional difficulties that are affecting your life and relationships, give Emotional Resolution a try.

Book a Session today


About Sue
Sue Siebens is an intuitive holistic healer based in Dallas, Texas. In her practice, she uses techniques that work at a fundamental level, where the roots of the illness, fear and pain can be accessed and resolved.  Sue teaches and blogs to broadcast and raise awareness about these new technologies, so that as many people as possible can find relief and peace in their life.

What is your Emotional Temperature?

By Sue Siebens

How do you feel when you wake up in the morning?

By noon what is your mood?

When your work day is done, what emotions are swirling?

Do you drop off to sleep gently? Is your sleep restful?

A large part of having good emotional intelligence is the capability to recognize our own emotions, identify the different feelings and use this information to guide thinking and behavior, to manage our reactions and adapt to the situations we find ourselves in.

But, most of wander around in a blur of feelings that we don’t know how to control or where they came from apart from the immediate event. And often, our most distressing times are over-the-top responses, soaring much larger than the current reason calls for. And these events repeat with a disheartening frequency, even if the exact cause is “different”.

It can be overwhelming and frustrating.  How do we get past it? When is our breakthrough?


EmRes – Emotional Resolution is a natural process that we are born with.  Sometimes the resolution process gets interrupted and the emotions that are active or in-flight do not get metabolized.  When the same emotion is triggered at a later time, even years later, the original unresolved emotions will activate and flood the current situation, prompting reactions and drama that are in excess.

Good new! We don’t have to know anything about the event or trauma that caused the original block.

In an EmRes session, a current troublesome situation is relived by describing the current situation and briefly telling the story enough to get the event firmly in mind.  Then the lymbic system in the brain is activated to completely digest the emotion(s) that were flaring.  Once emotion’s physical sensation blueprint is gone, the emotional block is expired as well.

Once complete, future emotional situations of a similar nature will not cause the “resolved” emotion to swirl into another emotional storm. In fact, each individual emotional resolution will quell most or all situations that have a similar emotional root.  In other words, an EmRes session for anxiety using one situation can resolve the unnatural anxiety felt in many, if not all, of your situations.

EmRes is new to the US. Almost no one has heard about it. But, the response of people that have tried EmRes is almost universally positive. They(we) are amazed at how transformative the EmRes process can be.

People stuck in the grips of grief, fear, anger and frustration have found their breakthrough. Lives have been changed for the better.

It can happen for you too!

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About Sue
Sue Siebens is an intuitive holistic healer based in Dallas, Texas. In her practice, she uses techniques that work at a fundamental level, where the roots of the illness, fear and pain can be accessed and resolved.  Sue teaches and blogs to broadcast and raise awareness about these new technologies, so that as many people as possible can find relief and peace in their life.

Clearing Emotions to Heal the Body

By Sue Siebens

I had a client in for an Emorional Resolution or EmRes session followed by a bodywork session. She had been in previously for just bodywork (Bowen) and was intrigued by my description of EmRes.
So we did the EmRes session and afterwards she said, ” Most of my physical sensation were in places were I have ongoing pain or other issues.”
Her sensations didn’t “start out” on her physical issues but at the end, they were the “last ones” to appear and resolve.

Then I had another client that had a similar experience… Previous session was Energywork (Reiki, etc) and this session was EmRes + Bowen for body pain we had discussed before.
As the EmRes session wound down, his physical sensations were in the areas of his physical dysfunction.

These sessions confirm, again,  the link between the emotional/mental and physical layers of our being.  I believe the EmRes session is taking off the Emotional/Mental congestion off the body, so that the physical issues can be addressed and released. Its amazing 

Here’s an interesting Time article that say much the same thing: Ignoring Your Emotions Is Bad for Your Health.


Find a EmRes session to resolve the difficult emotions that are holding back your healing–no matter what level (mental, emotional, physical)  it may be.

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About Sue
Sue Siebens is an intuitive holistic healer based in Dallas, Texas. In her practice, she uses techniques that work at a fundamental level, where the roots of the illness, fear and pain can be accessed and resolved.  Sue teaches and blogs to broadcast and raise awareness about these new technologies, so that as many people as possible can find relief and peace in their life.